Is your glass half full or half empty?
Because they appreciate what they have and what can be!
They see what they can do with it, they will make it last and make it better. They see more.
Negative people see the glass as half empty – because they see what is gone. They see an empty space. They see the problems and not the solutions. They see less.
The positive person will think: I can survive longer, because I will drink slowly, I will savor, and it will last longer. And I can always find more when this is gone. I believe in what can be.
The negative person will think: I am going to die, there is nothing left. It is hopeless and I know better so I am right. I know more than others. I do not believe in what can be.
The “negatives” disrupt teams working together! “Negatives” look not on how they can improve but why you suck at what you do.
*Positive people will see a cathedral *Negative people will see only bricks
*Positive people will say great Job! *Negative people will say, “Why didn’t you…”
*Positive people will be the life of the party *Negative people will not get invited to the party
So how do we handle the “half empty personalities?” do we shut them out, or do we challenge them in conversation? Do we ignore or do we need to let them go?
You see these are the folks who relish in having triangular conversations.
They are the ones that talk behind our backs. They are the ones with little courage and huge egos.
They are the ones that kill culture and bully their employees. They are the ones that drain your energy. They are the ones that yell and think they are worth more.
Working with half empty personalities isn’t easy; they will suck the life out of you. The momentum of your team will increasingly be challenged.
Negative people want to stir you up, “Push your Buttons”!
Don’t let them, smile, leave the room, don’t get caught up with it.
Then simply decide: can they change or do you need to change them by hiring those that fit!
Smile and know that you are not superior or better but know that they are the ones that life does not shine upon and where relationships wither
Remind yourself that you are the creators of the future and the ones that others will follow to become their very own leaders.
Sister Mae I and HRMexplorer